How are you Patience?
I have decided to write this letter to you not because I can’t face you to say all these but I knew my mood would change and I may be very angry and I can’t predict what would happen afterwards. To avoid being violent that is why I have written this letter to you.
I have been deceived, I have been really bamboozled, Yes, no doubt about that. You made yourself available for me and I strongly fell for it. You do not love me at all let alone have true love for me, the “true love” you claimed to have is millions of miles away from the original true love.
The first day I met you in Wandegeya at Owenz Bar, I knew I was not a match for you but you kept on telling me that you are not taken up with material things.
I told you I was a second year student at Makerere doing a degree in Economics and you told me you were at Kampala International University. You did not tell me the year and course and honestly I don’t think that mattered.
I was smitten by your good looks and
I took you to my hostel in Kikoni and you seemed to be a good, patient lady. I remember the delicious food that you prepared and the way you turned my room upside down to make sure it was clean and tidy.
I thought I had gotten the woman of my dreams and later when I proposed to you (Oba what was I thinking?), you seemed so happy to accept.
But you have now showed me your true colours! You are just a gold digger and a man user!
I have really tried to accommodating you for almost two months which is a difficult thing to do.
Now since you got another lover, you have been going around telling people that I was weak in bed.
Remember when we first met, you kept telling me that “you don’t like sex and that it was painful.”
Now you are the one telling people including some of my friends at the hostel that I could not go beyond one round of sex.
My dear you even told me that having sex before marriage is a sin. So co-habiting is not a sin? I was even disturbed psychologically because this came up when I was preparing for my exams. I do not regret knowing you but I regret bringing you closer into my life.
What pained me most is that you were not remorseful after all these infidelities of yours I even caught you with a guy but you did as if nothing had happened!
Anyway, thanks for everything, I could have gone further but not to make it too voluminous I will stop here.
Lastly, when are you collecting your stuff from my place? I give you one month. If not you will find them outside the hostel gate.
Yours,
Michael
